i have to go to summer school for an hour for math. through one of my friends i met this kid who we'll call joe. joe goes to another school but in my area all the schools come to my school for summer school. ok so everyday when i come into school joe comes up to me and gives me a hug and says hello. we've only known each other for maybe 2 weeks and we've only really talked over myspace. when i leave school he gives me a hug too. normally he just says "hey (my name here) how ya doin?" and then i say good an go to class. today when i walked in i gave him a hug as usual and then he said "you look really nice today" and i said thanks and walked to class. normally i would flirt back or something but here's the catch...he has a girlfriend. his girlfriend goes to my school, i think she's 14. she's my best friend's neighbor. she's not a friend of mine but i have nothing against her. on "joe's" myspace is says "i love(girlfriend's name here)" and its all over his myspace. so what is this kid doing? he seems like a nice kid. i can't tell if this is his way of talking to girls normally or if he's flirting. im so confused what's going on?!
DefinedEyes answered Thursday July 19 2007, 2:35 pm: It sounds like he does like you.
Or maybe just being flirty,
honestly you can never really tell with guys.
But if you know he has a girlfriend, don't flirt with him. Innocent friendship is all right, but if he 'loves' his girlfriend, he shouldn't be trying to make anything else on you besides just friendly hugging. As for the compliment, that was an attempt at flirting, so let your best friend know maybe what he's doing. See what she has to say about it?
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