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Bad Choice?
Mkay. So, I'm having some love problems..
There's this guy that I'm practically in love with, but he likes another girl.. I've tried to either get closer to him or forget about him, but neither is working out.. So I'm hoping if I find someone else, I'll get over him.
Well, about three weeks ago me, one of my best friends, her boyfriend, & two of our other friends all went to the movies. I was supposed to 'hook up' with her boyfriend's best friend, but he ended up not being able to come because of his parents.. So I just hung out with my friends. Well my best friend's boyfriend used to like me a little before he went out with my friend. She's known him longer & they were friends.. He liked my best friend more though, & I had no problem with it. I was really happy for her & everything. But after the movies I went to her house & she said that I was flirting with her boyfriend, & that he was flirting with me, but she wasn't angry, since she knew I wouldn't steal him from her. When she told me though, I was kind of surprised, I didn't know I was flirting with him, I just acted like I normally do around guys. I guess that might've been a bit too much :[ I was glad she told me, so I backed off more. After than night, I started talking with her boyfriend's friend.. but I couldn't build a relationship with him like that. I just wanted to be his friend.. but I felt bad because he was seriously starting to like me, & he hasn't dated for two years because his old girlfriend died in an accident while they were going out. I didn't want to make him feel worse though, so I told him I was sorry. He was kind of mad at first but he's okay with it now.. kinda. & now around a week-ish ago, my friend & her boyfriend broke up (the ones from the movies) She wasn't a bit upset at first, but then she was fine again. She still talks to her ex & his friend (the one I was ONLY friends with) & she told me her ex liked me.. She says she didn't care if they went out because she's over him.. I don't want to hurt her, so I'm not sure if I can do anything; & I don't want the his friend to be mad at me for not choosing him. :( I don't want it to seem like I'm using him to get over someone, either. I really do like him.. My problem is should I not go for it, wait, or find someone else?
I know this is long, sorry =[ Any help is appreaciated.. Thank you. :)
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well i definitely DON'T think that you should go out with your best friend's ex. that is never a good thing. even if she says that she is over him & fine with it, she's lying and is just trying to be a good friend.
also i don't think that you should feel bad at all for not liking that guy that you were suppose to hook up with at the movies. you never really met him, so why should you like him? just do what you said, and be friends with him. and once you get to know him, you never know, you could start to like him.
sorry if this isn't what you were looking for but i definitely don't think it would be a good idea to go out with your best friends ex.
good luck :]
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