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Does he care?
14/f
Hey, since school has been out, ive been keeping in touch with all my friends. One of my friends,lets call him D, has been talking to me regualry since school was out. Ive been having some problems lately and i seem to always go to him to help me out. I dont know whether he really cares for me, or he is just passing his time. I havent had a good past with boys, becuase they always end turning their back on me or just plain out stop talking to me. I dont know whether i should continue on with talking to him or just stop wasting my time. I can give you an example of what he says:
D says
-aren't you wondering why im still on?
Me says:
-why dont you tell me
D says:
-ok i will
D says:
-i can't sleep knowing that one of my friends is in pain/sick
D says:
-all night
D says:
-with nothing but the computer no siblings or family members to comfort her
D says:
-or help
D says:
-this is all i can do for you
D says:
-juts stay on and make sure your not lonely and if you feel any better or if i can help in anyway
See, i dont know whether he really meant that or not. He did indeed spend the whole night with me, comforting me, but he spends the whole night on msn anyway. He did indeed leave, but came back on 2 hours later, then said that. He is really sweet, but ijust dont know. Does he really care for me or not? He told me he does, but then again, so did many guys. Just now, i had a problem and i was dissacussing it with him, and i logged off for about 5 min and when i came back, he was gone. Maybe he indeed had to go, or maybe i just cant trust any guys. I really want to know, coming from a guy, do you think he cares for me?
Thank you soo much!
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Hey.
First- thanks for posting in my inbox [even though I knew this question was coming], I really appreciate it!
Well- I think that you've obviously had some bad experiences with guys and its making you doubt whether you can trust D or not. Honestly- all guys are different and its hard to be 100% positive on how D is. I don't know him- but from what you say- I think he does care.
I think you should give him a chance- no matter how much you're doubting whether or not he does care. Giving him a chance is the only way you'll know for sure. I mean- he stayed up with you and helped you when you were sick or whatever. Sure- he always stays up- but he didn't HAVE to.
Good Luck!
--Jack
(15/m)
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