its so hard for me to not be able to see my best friend in the whole world. he and i got really close in the last semester of middle school. those were the most special and unforgetable months of my life with him but now i wont get to see him that much anymore. we're going to different school next year so i wont get to see him everyday anymore. its summer now and here i am at home missing him so badly. we talk to eachother almost everyday but i just want him back beside me. its kinda hard to explain my feelings for him since i dont really even know anymore....i saw him nearly 3 weeks ago and i tried to see him again last week but he couldnt and this week he cant go to this one party. im just so sad about the whole thing. when i heard i might be seeing him again i got so happy all of a sudden but it really sux. someone help me please. btw we were never in a relationship but i used to like him and he doesnt like me.
Even if its a while away, make it worth the wait and find some great stuff to do for that weekend.
However, as much as you love this guy, dont make him your everything, cos if he goes or doesnt see you as more than a friend, then you will have nothing and it will hurt you more.
If the weekend goes well then perhaps make another weekend. And see if he feels anything for you :)
icey0990 answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 1:09 am: If i were you i would ask my parents if he could come over or if they would drop us off at the mall or somethin. i would definitely try to plan to hang out with him a couple times a week. how far away will you be next year? maybe you can still work it out to visit each other. One of my best friends had to say goodbye to her bf for 3 months because hes going to the navy! so i mean imagine that!? at least you and your guy friend can try and plan to hang out once a week or so. even if you guys just hang out at the park, hang out at each others house, go to the movies, the mall, a water park, anything! just enjoy your summer together. good luck! inbox me if you have more questions [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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