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"so called friends with benefits"


Question Posted Monday July 16 2007, 5:53 am

17/female

i have this "best friend" who we have hooked up with being "friends with benifits" on and off for the past 6 months.

once it's started does "fwb" last forever after that?

i would really just rather be his really good friend that we know everything about eachother but it just seems like every now and then he just wants his booty call, and of course he gets it.

what is the best way through all of this without losing him as my best friend?


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rubytuesday answered Monday July 16 2007, 2:06 pm:
You have every right to change your mind. You should never have to feel like you have to do something that you don't really want to do.

So just be honest and tell him that you'd rather continue just as friends. And if he is your friend he will understand.

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ductape_n_roses answered Monday July 16 2007, 12:34 pm:
If he really is your best friend, then he'll understand if you ask him nicely to end the fwb thing. If he gets mad at you and drops you as a friend, then, well, he's not worth it. It just goes on to say that he only wanted you for sex.

So the next time you meet him, ask him if you two will be best friends no matter what. And if he says yes, tell him that you just want to go back to your normal friendship & end the friends with benefit between you two.

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