My boyfriend and I see eachother every day and talk on the phone every day. I am 18 and he is 21. Sometimes we get naggy or fight about stupid things. He always has to be right and he sometimes says hurtful things not meaning to hurt me. I was wondering how we can strengthen our relationship so we dont ever fight and we are happier together. I love him so much and I love spending time with him. We have sleepovers sometimes and we are intimate. We have been dating for 3 months but we moved really fast.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ask_blondie answered Saturday July 14 2007, 6:27 pm: hey hun
one of your faults would have been moviing so fast, its not a bad thing, but i do kno that by takin things slower would have helped things last longer. 1stly you need to sit down with your boo and tell him how you feel. let him know what hurts you and explain to himm you realyl liek him but dont like how he treats you sometimes. possibly sugest goin on fun dates, like amusement parks and walks on the beach or maybe a bike ride or something were you gusy can get along. try to keep busy with him all the time and spend time together. if that dont work try to spend less time together, maybe monday-with him; tuesday-freinds; wednesday-him; alternate days. itll make him wanting you more and more; means less fighting. =] good luck
claireblue6 answered Saturday July 14 2007, 4:00 pm: There's no such thing as a relationship without fighting. You're going to have your little spats where someone gets hurt. It sounds like you guys don't fight about anything serious where it could end the relationship so, to be blunt, you just need to toughen up a bit. Obviously, if he likes the last word in things, it's because of his personality. You guys have only been dating for 3 months. Maybe your bothered by his stubborness and shortness with you because you guys spend too much time in the bedroom and not enough getting to know each other. [ claireblue6's advice column | Ask claireblue6 A Question ]
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