Okay I have been crushing on my best friend for 7 years and I finally told her about it. She said she was shocked but she not sure what gender she is into yet and she not ready for a relationship. She said she feels fine about it and she respect me of who I am. We still hang out all the time with our friends and last night I was chatting with her online and I told her that I went to my sister’s house for a party and she said her roommate Jackie was trying to hook me up with her brother. I meet him and we hang out at the party and talk and played pool. That was it. And when I told my friend Jane (my crush) about it Jane reply "I don’t know if I should be happy for you or pissed off" and I reply "what?" Jane replies "what you means what?"
I didn’t think of it much and I changed the subject and she was pissed off at me the whole night she said she had to go and that was it. I said sorry to her the next day and she said oh I am sorry that I sounded pissed.
Was she jealous?
What do I do?
(I am bi)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LOL_x0x answered Saturday July 14 2007, 12:15 pm: She might've been jealous because you told her you were interested in her first. It might've caught her off guard, because she probably was trying to sort out her feelings for you when you told her about another possible relationship.
I'd talk to her, and apologize. But tell her she told you she wasn't sure, and you didn't want to wait. Tell her you ahd to explore other options, becasue you didn't know how she felt.
Ask her to decide if she wants a relationship with you or not. Otherwise, tell her you might move on to the brother you played pool with, becasue you can't wait forever and you never know where this relationship may take you. Good Luck!
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