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Her Boyfriend
Okay, when one of by bestfriends get a boyfriend Im so happy for them. But when my friend Rachel started going out with Kile, my excitement was short lived. They'd been going out for two weeks when Kile came over my house waiting for rachel(yeah my house is the place to be my parents love kids so its okay) and we went im my attic(game room) and he started flirting with me.And it obvious he was fliting because we started playing pool and everytime i bent over to shoot he stared at me(wonder why??) and when I kicked his butt on that I started watching tv and he practicly sat on me and rubbed my leg and I flipping out on him saying dont touch me! And he didn't do anything.. Well that was like a week ago and sunday I got a message by him saying 'firty things' and I dodn't think he was kidding so i messaged him that the next time that he talks to me in anyway I don't care who he's going out with Ill either kick his ass myself or have Rachel do it for me. And yeahh some of my guys friends hit on ym im usto it, but I never knew this kid until rachel started going out with him personally I can't stand him but im nice to him because Rachel likes him. I didn't tell rachel just in case it was some joke she was pulling on me. But a couple nights ago I had Eric over waiting for Rae and Kile to go to the movies. Well when they finally showed up it was only Kile he said Rachel had to babyset so let's wait to go. Im like yeahh maybe tomarrow but I didn't want Eric to go home just yet..:) and we all started hanging out and Kile kept eyeing me and I was playing foose ball with Eric he grabbed my ass, and this wasn't brush on accident it was a full handed grab so i smacked him and he told Eric to control his Bitch. Well me and Eric no arent going out but everyone thinks and wants us too (long story) well Eric ended up kicking the crap out've him.. not that im sorry for him.. And online rachel asked why and I told her everything and she was like are you serios? and shes not the kinda person that would take his side, She has always said Friends First no madder what. I told her I waited so long because I thought he was kidding with me and I didnt want to hurt her, she understood and sad to say I wasn't there to see her yell, I heard and it wasn't pretty, well Kile's friend Josh(which I did go out with him for 2 months I think) told me that Kile wants to go out with and we like all went to the movies and Kile showed up and gave me a box of chocolates. I as like wtf.. leave me alone and Rachel got all upset with Kile and I was like I see your face anywhere near me or Rachel and ill personally kick your ass leave us alone! And now Rachels over with icecream and a broken heart and im helping but Eric wants to kill him, and now Kiles sending me messages that say I wanna find one person who thinks your hot (my default name is Not even hell is hotter than me from the spill canvas my fav songg and that one of his shirts cost more than my whole outfit and just dumb crap I dont want Eric to hurt Kile because I know he will and I wanna help Rachel she really liked him I told her I was sorry about everything and she just jokes about it saying neither of us knew he was a pig and crap. Well how do I get it across Kiles mind that I hate him, make sure Rachel wont hate me, and Eric not killing him..
Im 14 Female and Friends come first..
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Firstly I'd say 'nice one' in slappin that guy one after he grabbed your ass - he so deserved that! Guys seem to think acting like sleezy assholes toward a girl will make her like him for some stupid reason. :/
Anyway, I think you've nothing to worry about with Rachel hating you - she already seen how much an ass Kile is so you've no worries there. Just be there for her though. :] As for controlling your friend Eric, tell him to stop acting picking fights - it'll come back and blow up in his face eventually. Also, I think it's been made quite clear that beating up Kile isn't going to make him stop otherwise he'd have stopped already so Eric needs to stop wasting his time and energy (as well as how he can get into deep trouble if Kile decides to do something about it). I've had my fair share of run ins with guys like Kile and the only thing that stopped me from breaking their teeth was that they would afterwards go crying to the cops about assult and *I* would be the one getting in trouble, not him. It's the wrong way to go about it.
Lastly, about getting your message through to Kile. I'd say it's safe to say you've made it very clear already (I mean when a girl tells me to stay away or she'll kick my ass I generally get the impression she doesn't like me and it's not some new flirt technique) so I think the guy is just messed up in the head (figuratively speaking obviously). I would suggest letting him know one more time if he persists and without using offensive words or shouting just tell him, you don't like him and you and your friends want nothing to do with him so to leave you all alone and not call or try and contact any of you again. If after this he still persists then speak to an adult to take appropriate action. I don't like using the word but he almost seems obsessed and when someone crosses that line it's time to get adults involved to have it dealt with. One way to do this would be to have your parents call up his parents and TALK to them about the situation and basicaly just ask them to have a word with their son and to tell him to leave you alone. Asa las resort that should do it hopefully. Good luck. :]
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