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My friend
Okay well I use to like this guy and well I told my best friend and this other friend she found out too. But now I stopped liking him and like another guy and so my best friend knows but my other friend doesn't and she keeps emailing me, begging me to tell her. And truthfully I don't really like her. I don't hang out with her too. But she is so nosy that she will torture me to find out who I like. If she gives up she will pick one guy and I know I don't like him but she will think I do so she'll go and tell some other guy. Or she will blackmail me with it and say I'm gonna tell this guy if you don't tell me who it really is. And I really don't want the other guy thinking I like him. And if I tell her who I like then she will tell him. She is the most untrustworthy friend ever. Please help!
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I think you should just ignore her. If she keeps on bugging you let her and just brush it off. If she tries to blackmail you by telling some rndom guy let her - I mean seriously, what do you care? If that random guy asks you do you like him just tell him the truth and say no, your 'friend' is just being stupid so to ignore her. Seriously, it doesn't matter and it's not a big deal. The only reason she will try to blackmail you is if she knows it'll work (has she done that before and you caved in?) so DON'T let her blackmail you again. Tell her do whatever she wants to but you're not telling her and that's the bottom line. She'll eventually give up when she sees that nothing she does is making any difference to you. Just don't give in to her blackmailing.
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