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Anal Sex
im almost 17 and my bf wants to try anal sex im a bit worried about it one of my friends told me she did it once and it really hurt her bf is big
im scared to try my bf has a big penis and im worried it will hurt what should i do?
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I've never had anal sex, and really have no intentions on trying it. I find it gross, unappealing, and unsanitary.
I'm not trying to talk you out of it though. A lot of people actually enjoy anal sex, both partners even. A lot of my friends have tried anal sex. Some have accomplished it and continue doing it, while others tried and never plan on experiencing it again.
It hurts. Everyone i've talked to has told me it hurts, and trust me! I'm sure it does. It doesn't matter if he has a big or a little penis, it's just going to hurt. Plain and simple. If you want to try, I have some tips:
1. Use a TON of lubrication. As much as you need. It can get gross and messy, but in the long run it will cut back on the pain and make it hurt a lot less.
2. Have your boyfriend finger your anus. That is so gross, but it's just what you have to do to make the pain less excruciating. Have him use has many fingers as he can to, for lack of a better word, loosen you up.
3. Have him inch it in you little by litte and tell him to go slow. Eventually the pain will decrease, and if it doesn't, stop.
4. Go the the bathroom before and after if you can.
I really want you to read this article before having anal sex;
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