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best friend vs. drugs?
here is the thing.
i became best friends with one of my best friends in 7th grade.
this coming year we will be seniors.
she moved to another district at the end of 8th.
but we are still very close. though she is a half hour away.
she told me her dreams and how she wants to go to college and such.
shes been dancing and doing soccer for years.
this past friday me and my friend were trying to make plans since we havent seen her since september.
and shes all "im trying to get high" and crap..and all we could do is be like WTF?! we didnt know how to react to her stupidity. and we werent sure to yell at her. hate her or be mad at her. the next day she came online and apologized to me and said she didnt remember shit from the night before online. and that she was sorry and she regreted it. and how she didnt mean to do it and such. and swore she would never do it again. the today i was talking to my friend and she said how our friend came to her and all about her problems and that she was upset because people were being arses... yet what she pulled the other night was pathetic and how my friend was all WTF and wanted to make her regret it so badly yet didnt know what to do.
i dont know what to do. >_<
we have that kinda friendship where we sat 2 tables away and our tables hate the others table. so we got into hating each other but we didnt know why...and finally we broke free and just happened to be sitting at the same table with 1 of our friends. so we learned that we were stupid and we became really close.
so im not sure if its worth yelling at her and what not half of me makes it seem like she is sorry and she regrets it yet half feels like she doesnt.
and do you know by any chance any song lyrics for this type of situation?
thanks!
sorry it was so long.
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I don't know any song lyrics, sorry but its sorta sonfusing of what you wrote but I'll see what I can do. So you feel it seems like she is sorry and regrets that but halkf feels like she doesn't. Maybe give her another chance. And if she does it again then its over. Because if you yell at her and she did say she was sorry and ment it then there would be no point. So forgive her and just remember if it happens again that friendship might end up sinking. Well good luck and I hope everything goes well for you.
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It sounds like she could just be doing it all for attention. Since she doesn't live nearby you wouldn't know if she was actually doing drug or not. She probably just said it and then when you and your friends reacted the way to did, felt bad, and had to go along with the story anyway.
If you do know for sure that she did do drugs, I'd tell her not to do it again because you don't want to be involved in that sort of thing. Explain to her that you care about her and don't want to see her mess up her life.
As for song lyrics..maybe "I can do better" by Avril Lavinge...I'm not at home right now, but when I get home I'll see what else would work and edit this answer for you.
Kate =]
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