i need help with my bnoyfriend trouble's badly ...
Question Posted Tuesday July 10 2007, 7:07 pm
Okay well i am 13/f and my boyfriend of three years is 14. And of course i love him to death and stuff but the thing is .... i never see him i have seen him once this hole summer i talk to him at least 4 times a week... when he's home i somtimes think he is cheating on me because i know he has once with my cousin and she tolled me and so i tolled him that i knew about him and her and he said that he was truely sorry but the thing is i never see and when i do talk to him-on the phone- it only lasts for about 30 minutes. Can you help me on the way i feel about this?
Thanks in advance!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? phatdopelove answered Wednesday July 11 2007, 1:36 pm: First off, you love him cause he cheated on you?, I'm sure you don't but your proved you did love him that way by giving him that 2nd chance, I mean some people deserve second chances but chances are if a person cheats once then they do it again, and it's making him think its okay to cheat because you gave him what he wanted, by taking him back. If you're in any relationship at all you shouldn't have to EVER think about whether hes cheating on you or not. Also, the big thing is HE DIDN'T TELL YOU and your cousin did. He didn't admit it til you confronted him, he's truly sorry my a-- hes not sorry, Dump him, your boyfriend is a doosh bag, you deserve better, and when you talk to him on the phone tell him why you dumped him but he should know the reason, your still young , live your life and you'll have the rest of your life to find love. [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
lovemusiclifeme answered Wednesday July 11 2007, 2:09 am: Dear help,
One statement sums it up for me. Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. The other person giving you advice is also very right. Listen to him, hes knows it first hand.
Dump him.
Missy [ lovemusiclifeme's advice column | Ask lovemusiclifeme A Question ]
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