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Question Posted Tuesday July 10 2007, 11:25 am

My old friends are so incredibly lame. I used to go to a private school, but then my mom switched me to public school, to get ready for highschool, [since i'm going to a public highschool this year.] anyways, i guess i was considered popular, even though i never really noticed. but then like the last day i was there, they were all like.. "now whos going to be the leader and the most popular in our group?" and so ya anyways, then when i switched my one old friend, who i guess got that stupid little lame title, these girls who were just followers who I THOUGHT were actually my friends, but they were really just using me, now were all sucking up to my old best friend. well, shes been hanging out with them alot, so all these other girls are like sucking up to them too, because yeah you get why. so, this one girl, who was like average in school, thinks shes soo popular now, and how shes soo great. and like in highschool next year, if she even comes near me im going to explode. i hate her like so much, shes so fake. what should i do?

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DefinedEyes answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 1:30 pm:
Why waste your energy on that. Life is TOO short to be fiddling around with dumb meaningless stuff like this. I'll have you know, when you start highschool you will be puney little FRESHMAN, the scum. Let her have confidence and think shes 'popular' because it doesnt matter how she thinks of herself. YOU cant change her. If you hate her 'like so much' don't talk to her, dont be friends with her, whatever. Its so imature, are you sure she's the fake one? If you are so obsessed with popularity, are you sure you arent the one being fake. Because they say, what people hate in others, they hate in theirself as well. But really,
get OVER IT, you cannot change other people, they can act how they want to, its their life, focus on yours.

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PinkLady4863 answered Tuesday July 10 2007, 12:58 pm:
who cares? honestly you are all caught up in who is popular who likes you and who is at the top of the monarchy. don't be mean to anybody even if they deserve it because you being nice will only make you better and make more people will respect you. my advice is to find some real friends who are not obsessed over "being the most popular" then you will realize you don't need any of this. im in high school now and trust me the ones who care about popularity are the ones who aren't popular at all. the most mature thing to do here is make ammends with everybody [you don't have to mean it, but it's better to be on everybody's good side it will make life easier] then move on to find some good friends who will have your back because in high school, that's what is going to make it so much easier. good luck =]]

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