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i like this guy who has a girlfriend. and a few weeks ago he told me he likes me. hes flirted with me a whole lot. well hes still going out with his gf, but he flirts with me even more now. like on the phone he tells me he cant wait till we hang out because im so fun and pretty and stuff. and he told me hes starting to like me alot more. but i feel bad flirting with him if he has a girlfriend, but its hard to stop flirting with him if i really really like him.
helppp me please.
ily <3
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It sounds like this guy is just waiting to get a response from you before he breaks up with his girlfriend. He doesn't want to break up with her until he is sure that you like him and you will be there when he does.
You just need to talk to him and tell him honestly. If you want to date him, say that you really like him and you want to date him but he is going to have to work his situation out with his girlfriend. Don't keep sneaking around with him until he breaks up with her. He will have more respect for you if you let him know that you don't want to share him with another girl. Sit down with him and ask him if he wants a relationship with you. If he says that he does, tell him that you really like him, but that you can't see him while he has a girlfriend. Tell him that if he wants to end it with her, you will be there. Then, let him call you. Don't call him too much or hang out with him too much until he is done with her. After that, go for it.
If he doesn't want to break up with her and wants to flirt with you anyway, he isn't worth it. Even though he may seem wonderful, you have to look at it this way: He isn't willing to break up with his gf, but wants to flirt with you. If you ever do go out with him, whats to say he won't do the same thing to you.
Think about it and sit down and talk with him. Don't end the conversation until you know where you stand and have a plan on what you are going to do. Communication is key to having a good relationship, the sooner you start communicating, the better your relationship will be.
Good Luck!
Sarah
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