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is it wrong?
hi i read some of your advice and i think your great. but ok.. i'm 13 year's. ok my best friend like's this guy. and she is trying to get with him like boyfriend/girlfriend kind of thing. and she wanted me to talk to him and get to know him better for i can tell her right. so i called him and he seem's really cool and i'm starting to like him and i hung out with him a few times before. but we never really talked until i called him. she talk`s to him to. but not enough as me and him talk to each other now. and i asked him out for her because she wanted me to and i didn't want to be mean. which i really hated. but i didn't want her to find out that i liked him. and i called him 2day and asked him sooo what are you gonna say.? and he keep`s on telling me i don't know what do you think i should say. and i wanna say something like she a really good person. but i like him. in your opinion what does that mean for him to keep asking me that.? and is it wrong for me to like him.? please answer. thank you. and sorry i wrote to much. haha. =]
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No, I don't think it is wrong for you to like him. If she didn't want to risk such a thing, then she should have had the brass to get to know him herself, rather than to use you as a messenger. (No offense to your friend.)
I would assume that he keeps asking what you think he should say, because maybe he has realized he has feelings for you as well, but doesn't really want to make the decision of who to be with on his own.
Next time he says that, don't give him any answer except for maybe "You are a big boy, and I think you can express your own opinion without my input..." but of course you won't say that in an unfriendly or rude tone of voice. Let him know he needs to make his own decision on this one; you've been put in the middle of this enough.
Just remember: If he decides to be with her, you will have to accept that without anger, just as she should if he were to choose you.
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