[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? FrEe2bMe answered Monday July 9 2007, 5:56 pm: Although some may argue that it is not, it really is as simple as just saying NO. Say no to the other person, and say no to yourself. You know what your limits are and what you are comfortable doing. Sometimes we convince ourselves sex is so much less complicated than it really is. It is a big deal though. You need really think about all the aspects that come into play with having sex (Pregnancy, Reputation, STDS, etc). You get stronger every time you don't give in. People will respect you more if you say no. Just because everyone else is "doing it" doesn't mean you do too. Be an individual. Our integrity and dignity are one of the very few things we will always have in this world, and we often sell it for way too cheap. Stay true to who you are, don't let anyone tell you different. If someone you tell no has a problem with that, walk away, you don't need that. :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
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