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ok i got this girl i kinda like but im afraid to commit to a relationship caus she not the most good looking girl but i stil llike her anyway we always hang out and we have play around sexually but last night i planned for us to hang out and she text me the morning i go to pick her up to go fool around and says i got a b/f and now she being a bitch and acting like the perfect girl and i think it gets to me not cause i cant do anything with her but i think i like her and i dont want to see her with another guy please help me out
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well first you need to decide if you really want to be with a girl that had a boyfriend all this time and you had no idea. that seems kinda scandalous to me on her part. but maybe you need to put your attention on another girl cause if you do want to be with her, then losing ur attention might get to her and jealousy could take over and if not then you have the oppotunity to meet someone new... even if she does get jealous, you might like this someone new better ;)
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There's not really anything you can do other than leave her to it. :[ The thing here is you just plain missed your chance. You liked her enough to do stuff with her but not enough to commit to a relationship - although some girls are okay with this (and prefer this) others are not. They want more than just someone to mess around with and she obviously got the impression that you were not willing to provide that to her. She basicaly found something better so all you can really do is leave her to it to get on with it. As for the way she's acting like a bitch towards you, this I can't comment on because you wasn't very specific but you're obviously very angry towards her and my suggestion is to just leave it alone and leave her alone to get on with things.
I'd have to be painfully honest here and say you're being unfair and self-richous on your intentions. You like her yet want nothing to do with her other than just fool around. You even said she's not that good looking - something which wouldn't matter nor need mentioning if you actually do like her. I think you don't actually like her at all other than just having someone to do stuff with (and maybe as a friend) and now that she's gone off with another guy and things have changed you're jealous of being left out.
Probably not what you wanted to hear but that's the cold truth as far as I can see it. I suggest you just leave her to it and let her get on with things and you move on and get on with things instead of holding a grudge against her for doing what makes her obviously happy.
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