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my friend confuses me i dont know if anything is wrong
i like this girl but at times shes nothing to me. she is just soo idk like bam on bams unholy union JUST like him. well our friends used to get along when shed make them when we used to hang out but still i noticed and her friends are tougher then us just say were the hockey players their the....dark clothes depressed crazy people, i hate it. umm well i noticed change since...it started when one of our friends tried to get us together shes a real good friend of ours shes in our 2 groups she plays hockey with all the guys then is like all her friends. i couldnt tell her the reason i didnt think it out yet. should i of just said it all right out there we are total oppasites in every possible way i dont like her(a lie) shes to creepy she scares me sometimes our friends dont get along shes never had a boyfriend SHE SAYS NO USUALLY TO THE GUYS WHO ASK HER i dont wana make a fool of myself!she did that but everyone doesnt make a deal of it but thats her. shes the bad girl type ALWAYS in trouble she does anything to make her parents mad, shes so MIXED i guess like happy mad sad! thats one thing i dont like other is she likes dead kind of things and death shes always writing about her heart being broken wanting to die just stuff. i found her site and it was FILLED with it things like death, suicide, hell, being broken, and a page says entries its filled with saying and stuff she wrote, i felt bad...when i saw it, i think its all beacuse of me. shes quiet around new people, in most of school and my family, shes even known them for quite a while. she just sees something in them that shes afraid of or hates or something i dont know. on her site was so much the music, the pictures, what she wrote, all the quotes! it was so.!BAD i said whats with the site she says why i said whats it all about her friend told me fuck off so i left. one thing says 'the jerk i loved, did love, you to watch me in ALL this pain stare and laugh the guy who added to all this, who is killing me, inside, i loved you and you fucked up my life to the limit not sure what and who and how can help me now maybe you know you deserv more not sure witch way should be to recognize all i go through. this is one of a hundred and i dont get it it seems obvious? i will add more! i thought about this the past 6 hours. wonderin, also if anything would happen to her with the fireworks shes a true pyro shed light anything. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER!? help me in every or any possible way i need this i need to know if i did anything wrong and what i can or should do. and what does her friends know that i dont?! do they know something extra. is there any girl code or talk that i dont understand! help me.....soon as much help as possible
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aww how cute love is hell. she sounds just like me its creepy. ill be honest with you. you are a jerk you are a reason some people dont want to put up with it. dont spy on her. leave her alone give her space. so you hate her friends you hate how she dresses and acts ask your self why you love her then. you are just a jerk to her back off she was your friend then she had the nerve to say she liked you and you dont say anything back. shes braver then you she was in love so she took a chance that would be a real girl a good girlfriend. you just spy on her watch her with her friends. you read her page she writes so much heart filled things in there and their probly about you that means she doesnt hate you yet but if you keep acting like this maybe. im surprised she still trusts her guy friends that happened to me WITH A GUY LIKE YOU and i didnt even wana see a guy or talk for a while. she wants love she has guy friends who love her as good friends and maybe a little more. shes happier around her friends so is most people especially if she is depresed and gothic rebely like you said and she probly HATES YOU STEREOTYPING HER AND HER FRIENDS she will not change for you or anyone. shes going through a lot right now and she needs you. she needs you to love her but dont even bother if you will never show it. you ARE PROBLY killing her inside thats what it all means. she lost her best friend and her love of a lifetime. you tried to change her.
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Girl code lol. Thats funny. Ok as plain and simple as it sounds, everyones different. This girl could have been through stuff or seen things in her life that have made her the person who she is. Shes a teen going through all the normal teen angst and depressions. Shes being the person she is and the person she wants to be. You can't change how she is, its just her, you can either accept that or leave her alone. If you like her then tell her.
If you like this girl even though shes into strange things that most people arent then that means alot! Sometimes people are tough and aggresive and very depressed but they aren't some kind of alien. Shes just being herself and there is nothing wrong with that. She'll write depressing poems and stuff because in her life right now shes an emotional teen and shes just acting the way she feels is necassary.
This girl who you think is so 'bad' and you ask what is 'wrong' with her the only difference between you 2 is your interests and your attitude. Your both humans with eyes and noses and arms and legs. Just because someone is totally opposite to you doesn't mean you cant like them.
I have a boyfriend who is sorta like her and im this bubbly happy positive type while hes punky and angry (towards guys) and likes dark things but when you have that feeling for someone you should embrace it not push it away because you think its wrong.
This girl might have a reason for being how she is but thats her buisness and you should just be nice to her and treat her how you would want to be treated. Once again, if you like her then tell her.
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This girls crazy about u! Shes trying to talk to you but your getting so nervous that she thinks you dont like her. Tell her you like her man! ask her out!! If you love this girl then dont let her go. Shes waiting for you to make a move! Ask her out on a date or go the next step and ask her to be your girlfriend. Shes probably avoiding you or looking away from you because she still likes you but she thinks you dont like her. Just go for it man!
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