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broke up
Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week...and like hes cheated on like all of his girlfriends and we've hung out once and like this morning he sent me an email saying like he thinks we should just be friends and stuff and because we never talk or hang out..but i think theres another reason because like i always call ( not like all the time butlike 2 times a day) but he just doesn't answer and i leave him voicemails but he never calls me back...so its his fault we don't talk...but what do u think? Could there be a diff. reason? Help me please
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Yes, I think you are right.
You should talk to him and tell him it's his fault and that you were the one that was supposed to end it with him.
Tell you that you feel that there is a different reason. [Maybe he might tell you the different reason after you tell him, it was his fault that you guys didn't talk]
See what he says.
Hope I helped.
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Yes, the reason could be that he's not mature & not boyfriend material. He doesn't sound like someone who's commited or cares about the person he's in a relationship with. For him to break up with you because he doesn't have any desire to hang out or talk [that requires him answering his phone], isn't YOUR fault. Not only is he a horrible boyfriend, he also doesn't seem to possess of the qualities of a good friend. No matter what his reasonings are, the point is: he doesn't have any desire to build a relationship with you. If this is how things are after the first week, can you imagine how bad they could have been after a month? Be glad you didn't get too involved with this guy. I actually wouldn't be too worried or put any effort into figuring out what the reason was. If he put in no effort, why should you? :)
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