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friends
ok so i have 2 problems: i have friends in 2 "cliques" and they're all my best friends. the girls in one of the groups.. their all great and fun to be with but sometimes i just feel like idk. lately, they havent been inviting me places. i dont know it might just be me but i feel like thats happening. in my other group, they dont really like my other friends and whenever i talk about one group to another group, they all talk about them in bad ways and i just go along with it sometimes and i feel bad. problem 1 - should i talk to them about it or just leave it alone problem 2 - should i keep talking bad about the other girls or say something??
help?
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I know exactaly how you feel, that happens to me all the time...the best thing to do [[even though it might not feel like it]] is to turn around and say something about it. Dont be affraid to tell them how you feel, both groups are your friends, and you want to keep it that way. It might be intimidating, but if you dont say something, then you run the risk of the other "clique" group finding out about you talking about them...and TRUST me you do NOT want that to happen. OH YEA!!! If you do actually say something dont be mean about it
If in fact you do get caught in a situation like that, and you feel uncomfortable, then you should try to bring up another conversation. For example, if they are talking about lets say samantha and about how she is so stupid in science class or whatever...just bring up a topic about how hard the quiz was last week and if they think they did good on it.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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