Latley I've been so obsessed with, and depressed because of - looks. And I finally figures out my reason for feeling so bad. A guy. Pathetic, yes I know. I want this guy to be so proud of me that he wants to walk around the mall with me under hus arm so he can show me off and people can envy me. I want to be his main pride. I want him to feel so lucky I'm his. So I've been killing myself dieting and searching for the perfect look. Now I have 2 questions..
1) How do I prevent this from happening EVERYTIME i like someone? I would like to be able to have a crush without hating myself..you know?
2) What makes a guy proud to show you off? Is it all about the nice ass and skinny body? Or is it looong curly beautiful hair that gets other guys attention?
I know he thinks I'm pretty (atleats I think so, otherwise he wouldnt even bother talking to me right?) so its just a matter of making him feel like he's got something others want - me.
To be honest, as a guy myself, the thing we find MOST attractive in a girl is her personality!
a girl could look the hottest in the world at first impression, but if her personality stunk, automatically she becomes less attractive!
on the flipside, a girl doesn't have to be the hottest ever, for a guy to find her beautiful!
there is absolutely no way you should be starving yourself to look good! I'm sure that if you just be yourself and stop being somebody else, he will find you truly attractive and beautiful! if this isn't enough, then he most certainly isn't the right man for you! NO guy should make you want to change!
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