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Expectations!
My friends have all these expectations on me! And I have one week to make them come true! You see, everytime I see them (once a year) I always look great! but this year, I've let myself go and I hate to say it but.. I'm ugly. Lats year everyone called me "smoking hot" and I was homecoming queen, this year that all changed, I got depressed and turned ugly and now boys wont even look at me. The thing is - my friends how live overseas are not aware of this change! So they say these things to me (online) like "its gonna be so much fun hanging out with you again,, you always draw a bunch of boys to us, i never get to hang with boys when ur not here" or "remember that guy you thought was cute? well i showed him ur picture and he thought you were hot so i told him i'd hook you up when you got here, and now he can't wait!" it may sound corny, but everyone is expecting me to look GREAT! They're always so proud to walk around the mall with me because I'm pretty! The boys love when others try to pick me up and im like "no sorry..im with these guys!" and the girls love how guys try to pick me up and I turn their attention to them instead!
But that wont happe this year! Im soo ugly now! And I know "real friends shouldnt care" and i know they'll still love me, but I feel so bad! I want to look good, to be their main pride!
I don't want to feel like they're ashamed to walk around with me.. :( help!
I have 5 days to make myself GORGEOUS! Do you think I'll make i or should I just cancell the trip?? Hvae YOU ever made a dramatic change in a really short time? Or does it take longer?
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Ok first things first do not cancel the trip, and maybe see a doctor to see why you are suffering from depression (or its probably just a teenage thing) anyway maybe its a good thing for your friends that you need encouragement and no one can be hot all the time (some people like me rarely do) but i would suggest start excercizing, buy a new sexy outfit, and get your hair cut in the newest trend where ever you live, and remember its nice to be noticed as being hott but it can be emotionally draining to be expected to be all the time as you noticed, so just be true to yourself and dont compromise your feelings for your friends they really do care so tell them what you told us and everything should be fine
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