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this guy.....
14/f i've been talking to this guy for like over a month ans we've liked each other for like ever. a few weeks ago he told me he loved me and i said it back becauses i do. well he usually calls at night between 8-11. and he hasnt for three days. im begining to think hes lost interest but why would he just stop all of a sudden? i've tried calling him but the line was busy. im going to try again tonight but don't know how to sneak that in there. i mean i dont wanna just say why havent you called me? or anything cuz that could seem to clingy. please help. i love this kid and want to be with him more than anything.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Basically, guys aren't always like girls. Sometimes, they just need some space and you two are going into a phase. He might think you're moving too fast so he doesn't like intensity. It might not be a good idea to talk to him everyday, but at least once in two days instead of one if he still stops calling. But if he starts to call a lot again, its fine.
For the conversation, just start off normally and let him talk. After a while, say "Hey, I haven't talked to you in a while, where've you been?" And just slowly try to talk to him about why he hasn't called you. good luck.
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If you two are already at the "I love you" stage, then I'm pretty sure he'd expect you to ask why he hasn't called.
Just try to call him again if you're really worried, and if you do ask him why he hasn't called, don't be mean about it, just tell him you've been worried about him.
But honestly, if he's not taking the time to even attempt to talk to you or spend time with you, you two might need to re-evaluate your relationship and decide if you're really ready for a relationship together.
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