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It never works out...
16/f. So there is this guy that I'm good friends with, and I like him. I talk to him online all the time and we always make plans to hang out with each other, but the plans just never work out! I'm not even kidding. There's always something that just, like, gets in the way and I hate it! We both work, so it's hard to find hours that we're both available. Now that school's out, I haven't even seen him in person in 2 weeks, and you know, I think we'd have a better chance of becoming more than friends if we hung out together... but it just never works out. Should I just take this as a sign that we're never gonna work out together? Or should I just constantly keep asking him to hang out with me, which will eventually probably get really desperate and annoying lol.
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You need to maybe take a day off work or plan something in advance -- Maybe plan a week in advance or two weeks that your going to the "Cinema" (only think i could think of) and make sure nothing gets in the way. You need to tell him that you want to hang around with him and you like his company. May sound sad but guys like that saughta thing hehe!
Dan
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Well, if you guys are good friends, he would understand if you guys were constantly trying to make plans with him. See if he's also trying to set days to hang out, and not just you. Then, you would know if it was just you being "desparate' to hang out with him. If it's just you, give him some alone time, and if he likes you, friend or something more, he'll call you and set something up. I would keep going for it!
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Maybe it's a spiritual quest that has been brought upon you to see how much you really like this guy. Keep it up, maybe he's the one?
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