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What should I say to him?
Okay so I did some things with this guy and everything was fine after we got done. I mean I knew that he didnt love me and he was just getting him some but still I felt like he liked me a lil' bit. Anyways when we were making out he started to cum and me being only 14 well I didnt know that it was THAT bad. But I told one of his best friends that he cums really fast and yeah his friend made fun of him and he called him a "premature ejaculator". ha ha . I dont really know how to spell it. Well of course that pissed him off and so then he called me last night and made fun of me and told me that I was only 14 and hes only 17 but still. He also said that Im only mad at him because he wouldnt have sex with me. He yelled at me the whole time and then he claims that I was trying to mess with all his friends and screw all of them over! I didnt say anything but "ok" while he was talking to me but he seems like he hates me all because he thinks im spreading rumors about his penis. Which is not true I told his friend because I was just wondering why he cums so fast and didnt keep going. Anyways I dont know what I should do about him I mean he hates me for a false reason and I was wondering what I should say to him or if I should just let him be. Because I really like him and I know he doesnt like me but I just wanted to know If I should tell him how I feel about all this? He has Myspace and of course a phone.
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Sounds like a total jerk.
I've had friends like that who try to prove they're so manly by hooking up with younger girls.
I wouldn't talk to him.
He'll either just yell at you or he'll try to hook up with you and push things way farther than you want them to go.
Just stay away from him and try to preserve your reputation.
Good luck, and don't let guys like him ruin your opinion of the rest of us.
The whole premature ejaculation thing isn't your fault or anything. And it's his problem. It just makes him harder for him to have good sex. He's just angry at himself for not being able to control his body and he's releasing the anger on you.
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I think the bigger question here is why are you letting yourself be used like that? Your 14. You think he liked you a lil' bit? That's really sad. Chances are the guy is not going to get back with you unless he is going to use you again. The only thing you are getting out of this is a reputation for being easy. Is this what YOU really want? Not to mention the risks...Stop and wait for someone that you KNOW loves you, otherwise what's the point? Some guy gets his and you get what?
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You should just call him. Be really sweet and tell him that your sorry for all the drama that came out of the situation. Tell him that you didn't start any rumors and that you will gladly set the record straight with his friends. Then ask him if you can forget about it and move on. If he seems okay with it, ask him to hang out. Good Luck!
Sarah
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