so im 14 years old and a girl. about to be a freshman. and im in love. and i KNOW i am. evey time i tell someone that they say ohh your too young. your NEVER too young. and ive been wiht this guy now for 2 months and a week exact. and my mom is like freaking out on me. i havnt told her but she can just tell becuase SOO much more happier. ive waited 3 years to be with this guy agian. and he isnt cute. at alll. sounds mean. but im just tryign to explain this. when i started going out with him. people were like why hes ugly. and weird. and odd. and he ISNT. he is the SWEETEST guy i know. and i know if people sat down and had a conversation with him they'd fall in love with him. yes he is ugly. but he is not werid. he is just diffrent from what i am so people think oh they cant be together. who cares. he listens to rock and can dress in blakc every now and then. and he can be quite in school becuase he actually wants to learn something. so people think he is kreepy and weird. but my mom is like i want you to live your life and your not going to be becuase your going to be with him. and i get where she is coming from ive thought about it. becuase when you get to highschool you meet soo many diffrent people but ive already met enough people in my life. and i guess my point is should i listen to my mom and for now be friends with him and wait and maybe get other friends back. or do something else? sorry if it made no sense. im just so confused.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xOalmaOx answered Sunday June 24 2007, 9:47 pm: Just a tad bit confusing but that's okay ;] - aren't we all, haha. Okay well your mom and friends are right. You do meet a lot of people in high school and a lot of things change in high school. If you feel like you should remain friends than only you can decide that basically. You might meet someone you really like in high school so I would wait and see what happens down that road, but then again you might not. You might feel that this guy is possibly the one for you, so honestly don't let him go because if you do, he may not come back, you know ? Whatever you do I hope you're just happy with it. (: [ xOalmaOx's advice column | Ask xOalmaOx A Question ]
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