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i had this friend for about 3 years she was my best friend. but then we got this new girl and i really liked her and its hard being new soo i was friends with both well my other friend got jelous and stopped talking to me. and its been really hard for me to be okay with it becuase she was my best friend.and i didnt just lose her as a friend. at the end of the year my only friends were the new girl my other best friend and my boyfriend. and im okay with that just i lost ALOT of friends all at once. so i chose to be friends with the new girl and my other best friend too like you know you got your two or three main best friends. then i started gettin ignored and replaced by. the new girl would tlel me i was doing this with her then have my best friend do it with her and just ignore me. then this summer we got in trouble and my bets friend blamed it on me and the new girl so we got mad at her cuz i got in alot of trouble for something i didnt do. so then i lost another best friend. then i went on vacation before i left the new girl told me i wasnt aloud to be friends with her. like i can be but she doesnt know what she would do if we came close agian. well i juts got back to find out they are all close and replacing me agian.and ive talked to both of them about this before.im just sick of losing good friends. and being left out. is it all worth it. staying friends with both of them? or am i like the bad one in this case.
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Why would you think you are the bad person in this ? You haven't done anything wrong. Obviously these girls weren't ever true to begin with. You need to talk to them, and explain how you feel. Have them all over one night and tell them how you feel, and ask them to be honest with you and have them tell you why they have been treating you this way because it truly is unfair, & pathetic. It was very nice of you to accept the new girl as one of your close friends, but maybe you payed a little more attention to her at first, & that's why your first best friend got mad. Maybe she was feeling the way you were. Maybe that's how you all feel but yet you don't really want to tell each other so you decide to basically ignore each other. Just talk it all out, & I'm sure everything will be fine [:
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