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I really need a mother's POV...
So last night, I hung out with two of my friends (One is a male, one is female, and I am female. We're all 15) last night. We just went shopping, and we saw a movie. No big deal.
Well, once the guy's mom saw that he was with two girls, she seemed really irritated. She gave him this almost dirty look when she saw him with us, and when she found out that no guy friends of his were coming. After she picked him up, she interrogated him; Asking him things such as, "Are you hiding something from me?" and things like that. Also, this morning, she went though his cell phone AND his computer.
What the heck? We aren't bad girls, and he isn't a bad guy. We did nothing bad; We're all just friends. What's her deal?
She's divorced and he is her oldest child, if that makes a difference.
Thank you SO much in advance!
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You are kidding!
Good grief. Sounds like he needs to talk to her
about who his friends are. She may have assumed he was going with guy friends but that is her error, not his.
He knew she was picking him up so he wasn't trying
to hide anything.
About all he can do is talk to her. Try to find out why she has trust issues with him. Might be because his dad was an ass, but that isn't his fault.
None of you did anything wrong. My guess is she
is just worried about how to handle these things
being basically a single mom at the moment.
Maybe she has been seeing him all this time as a little boy and not someone who could be dating soon. The thought of that may have scared her!
I'm sure it will work out. He will talk to her
and it wouldn't hurt if he had you over and
introduced you to his mom. :)
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