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Stressing it??
ok so im 15/f and im feeling God-awful right about now. i havent had a boyfriend in a WHILE, [and yes it does ashame me to have to watch how the whole world has a partner], but thats not even the problem. i've been focusing on this one guy, who i first thought was out of my reach, but discovered there was still hope, and i thought it could really lead to something. but now its the end of the schoolyear and he confessed he wont be back next year [highschool], so i think i may have thrown a whole year away waiting for him to make the first move. i can say [but only to myself], that i honestly love him, and our being together would be the best thing, but i CANNOT bring myself to tell him that, because im such a coward. i still have 3 days left of school, and honestly, i think it would break my heart to have to see what i cant have, and then have to say goodbye. im sorry i made this a life story, but this is making me so depressed im suicidal. comments, tips, opinions??
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If you're shy you don't have to go out and say "I LOVE YOU BE MY BOYFRIENNNNDDDDD!!!" or anything like that; this scares guys off a lot of the time, anyway. Try starting casual, whatever makes you comfortable. Get his number/ email, some basic contact information (his facebook/ myspace?) and keep in touch. Ask him out casually, I mean, even if he was just your friend, you'd want to hang out causally, right? Nothing to get worried about there as I'm sure you ask friends to do things with you. Then, once you have made the uninimidating steps, you can take it from there.
Everyone has a different style for how they would do this. The main thing is to just go for it, or I know you'll regret it.
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If you can't tell him in person, the next best thing to do is to write him a note. You can tell him how you feel, or you can tell him to meet you somewhere alone. Tell him exactly how you feel, cause if you dont, youll regret it. Good luck, hope I helped.
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Well, if I were you, since there's only 3 days left of school, tell him. You've really got nothing to lose. And a guy is nothing to get suicidal over, there's other fish in the sea and you'll catch the right one eventually, but you have to be more open about how you feel or else nothing will happen.
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