hey I really need help on this one!!So theres this guy whitch im really interested in and he seems interested too.the problem is that hes looking for a one night thing but id like it to last longer :(..what can I do to turn a one night thing into a summer thing?? or oh well make it more than just a one night stand?
thx in advance
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ladytakesitall answered Friday June 22 2007, 4:47 am: well well i have dealt with this before and i will tell you what if he wants a one night stand and he is hell bent on never seing you again thats whats gonna happen , the thing is you have to make him want you, suduce that pants off him and make him want more and never give it all up become friends with him is probably your best opption , know his intrests , and play accordingly you are a women use your powers damnit. if hes addicted to getting it on give it up and give it up good so he keeps comming back if thats what you want but if hes a one night stand kind of guy thers a good chance he dosent feel the same way about you as you do for him and your wasting your time , i have delt with this his name was matt and he wasn't worth it , i fought a girl over him. I won adn he still didnt really care he just wants a lay guys are very simple minded. tell him how you feel adn see waht he says ... good luck [ ladytakesitall's advice column | Ask ladytakesitall A Question ]
nonamecat answered Friday June 22 2007, 1:48 am: Rarely can you convince someone who isn't looking for commitment to commit. So what can you do? Don't give it all up on the first night. But honestly, is he really worth it? Even if you don't give in on the first date, how do you know he isn't just sticking around for the sex later on? [ nonamecat's advice column | Ask nonamecat A Question ]
averagegirl answered Friday June 22 2007, 1:39 am: Well, that one night you go on a date w/ him...dress casual..and girly. Just not too much. Don't overdue it. And don't flirt w/ him that much. Just be yourself.
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