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New friend.
Ok, well. this may sound a little stupid, but i wanted to ask you because all youre other answers in your column are genuine and my question seems a little confusing, but i really dont know what to do.
I met this guy about a month ago, and I really like him and all, and I can really talk to him about anything. Well, turns out, one night we were talking the issue of boyfriends and girlfriends came up. Now, when we were talking about it he said he doesnt want a girlfriend right now, but we still kiss and make out and stuff. I want to go out with him soooo bad, but I dont know what to do since he said he doesnt want one right now. Im just confused I guess. Like, he tells me im goregous and that he can really connect with me, but I dont know whether to go for it and ask him out, or just leave it alone.
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It's not fair on you if you don't let him know how you are feeling.
You need to sit him down and let him know how you feel. Even if he doesn't want a girlfriend you need to do the mature thing and talk to him about it.
Start if off by saying I know you don't want a girlfriend right now but this is how I feel, be honest with him. Then perhaps end it by saying.. well now you know my feelings for you i'll leave it up to you to make the decision.
Don't put pressure on him about it otherwise he might run away from it all. Tell him you'll respect his decision 100% and hope that things will eventually involve more feelings towards one another.
Until then all you can do is talk to him about it.
If he ends up saying no it might hurt but don't get mad at him, if you get mad then you might loose him out of you life completely.
Good luck and I hope you get together :)
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