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i cant get over him
16/f
me and this boy started talking to eachother and we got really close. we hung out a lot and he never said "will you go out with me" or anything like that but in our aim profiles we each had a little red heart in it and on myspace we'd have eachothers picture and the status would read: married. so i considered us going out. we've made out, we give eachother little kisses and stuff, hug eachother, cuddle... but the last time we hung out, we didnt talk. i thought he liked another girl because the other girl was talking to him a lot and her away message would say things like "i miss you" and little hearts and i knew it was for him. and plus when we talked i would always have to start the convorsation with him and he barely talks anymore then one time i just said "ok well i gtg ill ttul man" and hes like "man? do i even mean anything to you?" so the next time we talked i said "ok well i gtg bye sweetheart" because last time he thought i hated him for not saying anything like that and then he just went "bye" so then i would be left all confused like wtf.
so now the last time we hung out...
it was at a show and he was across the street from me in front of the building were it was at.
i was on a cell and texted him saying that i needed a ride home otherwise i was going to have to hitch hike or walk and i couldnt do that, it was too far away. and he got mad and said like "you havent talked to me in the past 2 daysyoure just using me for a ride" then i explained how i thought he liked someone else and he was like "i like another girl, says who?" but that doesnt make sense because he hasnt talked to ME in 2 days either so its not all my fault.
and later that night, still at the show, i called him and he sounded perfectly fine on the phone im like "do you hate me" because he didnt talk to me. and he goes "no its just awkward right now" so im like "ok" and we didnt talk the whole night and i ended up crying because i couldnt get a ride home and he wouldnt take me. and he kept walking past me the whole night and i looked him straight in the eye and he saw that i was crying.
and then a few days later
i havent said anything to him
but he hasnt said anything to me either
but i commented him saying "i miss you a lot"
and i know he read it
but then he didnt accept the comment so it didnt show up on his page.
but ik he read it because he accepted comments from other people.
and i left him a message too
saying:
uk what
when i told you i loved you, i meant it.
and it really hurts when we dont talk.
i never cared so much about a person before in my entire life.
i want to fix this, ill do anything
and the status of it shows that he read it
but he wont respond back
and he wont talk to me
i really cant lose him though
i really love him, ive never liked anyone so much before in my life i cant even explain it
i dont know what to do at this point
i want to text his phone because i know he'll say something back but im afraid to
should i keep trying to talk to him?
or idk
i dont even know
what should i do?
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Yeah. Definitely keep trying to talk to this kid. He had NO reason to ignore you & not give you a ride home. That sucks! I honestly think he's being an ass, but if you love him, don't give up on him.
Give him some space & IM him every now & then, but until things get back to how they used to be, don't be like "omfg talk." ya know?
I hope everything works out. You can IM me if you'd like. My info's on my column. I'd be glad to help out more through IM.
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