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am i bi-sexual?
hi
i am 19 years old and female. a while ago me and my friend eva got very drunk and some guy in a bar convinced us to make out with each other. ever since then we've been touching each other playfully, but we've always said we just do this to make fun of all those guys who get turned on by girl on girl stuff. last night, though, me, eva and a third friend were watching a movie and it was cold, so we used a blanket. me and eva started touching each other's thighs again and first it was like usual, like o make fun of it. but then we started touching each other between our legs and e did that for like an hours and somehow it didn't feel like a joke anymore because. we were really close to each other and i think she really enjoyed it becasue she started to breathe faster. i also really liked it but now i don't know what to do becasue i don't want this to affect our friendship. i don't kow how serious that was. what do you think?
Thanks
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Whether or not you go beyond the boundaries of friendship with a male or female, I think the friendship will change. This experimentation could be a one-time thing, something you just got carried away with, or a new direction you could choose to take with your sexuality. Our bodies and minds are connected, but they also can be separate. Physically you can be sexually turned on by someone's touch who is not even your type. The body responds to touch. You could have an orgasm just as you could be tickled by either a guy or gal, someone you like or not. Being physically able to arouse and be aroused does NOT make you anything, but human. Of course, our minds and emotions play a huge part in our sexuality, and we have to listen to all our being to decide and know how we identify ourselves in any aspect, sexual identity is only one part of our whole self. Sometimes just the newness of something makes it exciting, and you are young and have many years to grow and develop your adult self. If you want to label yourself as bi-sexual it is your choice, however I do not think it is necessary. Labels are subjective and assuming and often too general. If you enjoy women as much as men and could see yourself dating and having relationships with both being just as enjoyable, then you would definately have reason to label yourself a bi-sexual. You are not the first young woman to ask me this same thing and it is common to be experimental and questioning yourself at your age...I don't know if you are bi-sexual, but you are normal.
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