Generally you would get to know them casually at first, have conversations, decide whether you still like them once you know them. Then you could start asking them to come with you and your friends when you go places. After that you would casually ask for a get together one on one, not necessarily dinner and movie right away but whatever's comfortable.
While this is happening just be yourself, tease them a lot and get playful by say, poking them or whatever - if you are feeling more forward and it's appropriate lean into them a bit. Don't be afraid to be silly because that's where the flirting can come in, generally with teasing playfully and that sort of thing. IF you want to do the hard to get thing, catch a guy's eye from across the room and quickly look away... though this works only if the guy is more outgoing and or aggressive and already interested in you. In that case you would just tease him a bit, like if he asked you out you would comment on how busy you were. Personally I find the hard to get thing obnoxious for the two people involved and feel it takes the power away from the woman but others swear by it so it's really up to you. The above advice was how I would do it. Wish you luck! =] [ junebug93's advice column | Ask junebug93 A Question ]
greentea answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 2:01 pm: Well, you can't make anyone like you, but you can always make yourself more attractive to them.
Just talk to them, joke with them,flirt with them. Y'know.
And if he starts liking you from that, then you can start playing hard to get.
There's no sure-fire way to get a boy to like you. You may not be his type.
You just have to keep trying.
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