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Giving Head
i would like to give my boyfriend head.
i want to give it to him.
but ive always thought it was grose.
but i love him so much and i just want to.
but im also scared that im not going to do it right.
so i guess im asking everyone (boys and girls) if anyone has any tips i would love to hear them.
Thank you.
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Hey. Just don't worry, practice makes perfect, so don't worry if you mess up the first time. If it's grose just make him shower before, you have to love it if you want to do it well. Check out this site, it has tons of info about giving head www.howtogivehead.biz
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Well is it the idea of his penis in mouth gross? Or is it his cum. Because when he comes you can always spit it out right after. Oral sex isn't gross at all. If you don't want his come to taste bad, tell him to try to eat a lot of sweets [fruits preferably] 48 hours in advance. To give head you just put your mouth on his penis and move your head in a bobbing motion, use your tongue and slide it around the head of his penis a few times. You don't have to take all of his penis in your mouth. Instead, put your hand at the base and focus on the upper half. You can play with his balls a little to increase the pleasure, but you MUST be gentle. I also recommend asking him about the balls first, he may not be into it. Also, NO BITING. That's bad. I Hope I helped =)
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I used to think it his whole penis in your mouth, instead use your was gross too, but it's not that bad. I also used to think that I would make a fool of myself and that he would not enjoy it, but the idea of them receiving oral sex is pretty exciting in itself for them. Don't try to take hand as well. Some good places to find tips are on the sally johanson (sp) website and of course the cosmopolitan website. The best advice I can give you is ask him what to do...he'll know what he'll like best. And remember, only do things if you are ready for them, do not let yourself be influenced. Good luck.
Teacup. =]
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i don't have any tips....but please keep reading... if you don't feel comfortable with it because you think it's gross, you should just tell him that, because if he truely loves you back, he wont want you to pretend to like something when you don't. It would be better to say so now than to wait until he loves it and asks you to do it to him everyday and you finally have to say you've had it and he's like "what? you lied to me about liking it?" Trust me, you should say that you don't like it NOW. Or you could say that you are unsure about it, and that you just want to try it out incase you DO like it, but be warned...if it makes your boyfriend feel absolutely wonderful, he's gonna want you to keep doing it, so you should just make your decision carefully. As far as doing it right though (if you decide to)...just go with it. i'm sure he isnt going to mind however you do it. and he can probably offer commentary to help you along. i hope you choose wisely.
-SlushPuppy
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