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religious girl
ok, im 14/m and theres this girl i like that says religion is really important to her. and i really am not religious so i would like to know that if i got more involed with religion if that may help me out because im afraid that if i ever go to her church with her i may end up messing something up there...also what happens at a luthern church on like a wednesday, because one time my dad had said that the guy in charge of the church(i dont know what hes called sorry) had said something and there was suppose to be a responce and nobody responded so if any one could tell me like the rundown of a day at church that would be really helpful, Thanx
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Well, I'm betting that some people are gonna tell you, "You should be involved in religion because it's something you believe in, not just to get some girl!" And then others might say, "Well, if this girl is the only thing that can get you into a church, at least you're going, so that's good!" Ha ha! I guess these are both valid points! But anyway...
I'm not Luthern so I can't give you the details of a Luthern church service, but here's my advice:
Since her religion is so important to her, why not ask HER these questions? That will give you something to talk to her about, and she'll probably really enjoy discussing something that's such a big part of her life. Just let her know that you're interested in her church and want to learn more about it. Maybe she'll even invite you to church with her sometime! That would be much better than trying to "fake" religious involvement just to impress her (cuz if she thought that's what you were doing, she might get angry or offended).
Good luck!
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It's okay that you aren't religious. I'm atheist and at first I didn't want to tell anyone and pretended I believed in god because I was afraid people would think I was a bad person or something. But now i'm not scared to show who I really am. So if she doesn't like you for who you are... she isn't worth your time.
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