thanks for answering again i really appreciate it yea thats true i should try to be happy but its too hard because i avoided her and everything i wasted time and now we barely talk and not really close anymore.and i think im going to maryland to take vacation from everything and fly away my sadness does that sound weird? what do you think about this message?
"going to maryland for 3 weeks, i need vacation for myself and try to fly away my sadness"
can you please correct it if i said it wrong?
sorry if i sound dramatic but im not im just too sad = / and get away from everyone thank you so much again =]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? HereForYou answered Saturday June 16 2007, 5:31 pm: Hey, one thing i know is you can't force the pain to go away. You can pretend that none of it happened and then pretend that it's all ok but one day it will come back to you and then the same feelings will come back with it. =(
And about avoiding her, i know there's some regret there, but you can't change it, you can try fixing it by telling her that you're sorry and telling her how much you regret it, and you can try to make up for it by staying touch =), but you can't go back and change it =(.
We all do somethings that we regret, but we have to learn from them so we can try to not let history repeat itself.
Anyways i think the message makes sense! Maybe maryland is something good for you to try and cheer up. But im sorry to say that i dont think your sadness will fly away as easily as you expect. Try to make some good times and memories there, and share them with your friend then ask her about the place she movied in to ;)
P.S. you dont sound dramatic at all...im totally used to it ;) feel free to write more, ill stay in touch =) but ill write to you tomorrow, cuz i gotta go to bed now. Take care of yourself, i'll talk to you later. Keep smiling =) [ HereForYou's advice column | Ask HereForYou A Question ]
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