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dont know what to do


Question Posted Thursday June 14 2007, 9:34 pm

I'm running out of patience. I don't understand why I worked so hard in order to get no where. And this goes for everything. I always try to do my best at something i'm passionate about. I work hard and I aim high. But look where it's gotten me.. Nowhere. I mean, seriously, do i just have to be a soul-less person to get anywhere in this life?
Or maybe I should be like some people and just sit around and have everything fall into my lap... I've never been that lucky. I've always had hope. If I lost anything this year it would be that... The one thing that has helped me get by.
I could try to be like everyone else and just not give two f*cks about the people around me. Maybe I should walk all over them and use them and abuse them, until I get my way. This is how the world works isn't it?
It seems like my whole life i've been getting screwed over. I try my best to comeout of eveything with the positive attitude, knowing i'd never like to be like them... But look how far it's gotten me.
The best years of my life. What a waste. All complaints. I hate who I am. I hate who i'm becoming.
I don't know what to do anymore.
Any advice?


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christina answered Thursday June 14 2007, 10:54 pm:
The problem with you is that your attitude is too negative & you're giving up when shit doesn't go your way.


Yes, you could be like other people, but that really wouldn't do anything except make you another low-life. Is that really what you wanna be? Someone who doesn't work for what they want & someone who just expects shit to be handed to them?


If you work for it & it doesn't come to you -- then at least you can say you tried. If you just sit around & don't work for anything, then that's pathetic & you've got nothing to show for yourself.


Instead of giving up, keep going with your determination. You're bound to go somewhere in life but you'll never know that if you just give up. There's more to life than what you think there is but you need to make the decision to keep going along a good path.

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runawayxlove answered Thursday June 14 2007, 10:16 pm:
Hey, dont give up just yet. Yes, life is tough and sometimes you get no where soon. Keep holding on. Good things come to those who wait. You need to hang in there, even if all hope is lost. Eventually, it will be your time to shine. =]

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