i'm twelve.
i'll be 13 in september btw :]
i've made out -
and i'm mature for my age.
this one guy, that i seriously like a lot +
we've been together for quite a long time
wants to go farther. i think like blow job.
well at first i was like no way; but then he
said he wouldnt force me. he got kind of
" sad " and he wouldnt talk to me for a bit.
he kept saying, no babe, its okay :] ...
i just dont get it! what the heck is his prob-
lem ??? this isnt him, i've tried talking to him
and its going no where. but i love him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? disasterxwoah answered Thursday June 14 2007, 1:33 am: First off, not to sound like a bitch, BUT to be on this site you have to be 13. So I shouldn't even answer your question. So bascily, don't break the rules of the site and ask question if you're not 13 =/
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Next, You are 12 years old. Not to be rude again, but you don't know everything about sexual actions and the risks involved. If you said no the first time, that pretty much means your not ready and the idea makes you uncomfortable (weather you admit it or not). If you wanted to, you would have said yes the first time around. If you guy gets upset because you won't blow him.. his problem not yours. He should respect your choice. If he acts sad & won't talk to you then it obivously isn't "okay". Talk to him, tell him that it hurts your feelings when he gets upset, and that he should just respect your answer. Don't do something unles you want to, no matter how "upset" your boyfriend gets. And plus, you've made out, thats it & not that thats a bad thing, but going from making out to oral sex is a HUGE thing. Don't rush to grow up.. be happy being 12/13. When I was 12 and 13, oral sex was the LAST thing on my mind. Don't try and grow up, be happy being young. Sorry if that wasn't what you wanted to hear, but oh well.. hope this helped. [ disasterxwoah's advice column | Ask disasterxwoah A Question ]
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