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BF Suspicions


Question Posted Monday June 11 2007, 9:55 pm

My bf and I have been dating for 3 weeks, we started dating at the end of school so we don't get to see each other much cause he can't come to my house or anything and my parents wont let me go out anywhere.
We call each other ocasionally (well I call him)
and we talk for a couple of hours
At first, he was hard to work with because he doesn't trust anyone
But I earned his trust, and now we're really good.
I like him a whole lot & I don't want us to end up fighting all the time.
Lately, he hasn't called/answered my calls
or messaged/answered my messages
today I read his messages from other people
and some girl said

we can still be friends but there are limitations.. dont send me a message more then 3 times a day unless im talking. stop poking me..dont call my cell b/c im running out of minutes..

to him
I dunno if it's an ex or what
but it kind of scares me
I trust him enough not to cheat on me
But I just want to know what you think of this


(SORRY FOR THE LENGHT)


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Brandi_S answered Tuesday June 12 2007, 1:42 am:
If you trust him not to cheat on you, then why are you even bothered by this?
And why, exactly are you reading his messages? That's kinda his personal and private stuff, you know...
If he has trust issues, then I certainly wouldn't be risking breaking said trust by invading his privacy.
And see what happens when you do something like that? You get freaked out over a message that you have no clue about and don't understand it's meaning.
I would just forget it. Unless he gives you reason to feel he is cheating on you, then no worries, right?

ygs-29/f

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meghan2492 answered Tuesday June 12 2007, 1:12 am:
If you trust eachother , than talk about it !
I am pretty sure it's an ex gf !
So no harm done !

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dirtyfryBG31MTB answered Tuesday June 12 2007, 12:50 am:
hmmm


i don't think he's cheating

it sounds like an ex. that's the sort of thing exes say "we can still be friends but there are limitations." just looks like he's hung op on this girl.

but i do think there's an issue with you trusting him if you're reading his messages.

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