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So, I've been with this guy for a while and only one guy before him. And whenever I give him a blowjob, I can never get him to cum using just my mouth. It usually ends with him having to jack himself off. Any tips? And no website links please.
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i would try doing things like give him a hand job as you suck on the head
or put a listerine pocket pack in my mouth
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Just as some females are unable to orgasm through sexual intercourse, some males are unable to orgasm through oral sex. Don't take it personally. There could be a number of reasons why this is happening. Many men associate sexual pleasure with their hand (specific touches, the temperature, the grip, etc.) and find it difficult or impossible to climax without it being involved.
You might want to try using your hand while giving him the blowjob, alternating the movement of your hand with the movement of your mouth. Also, don't be afraid to talk to your partner. Ask him if he likes what you're doing and be specific. Consider asking him if likes the way you're hold his penis in your hand or if he likes the way you're stroking it when you're sucking him off.
You might be jerking him off one way when he's used to jerking himself off another way. This is a very important detail you have to pay attention to if you want to get him to climax. Remember, a blowjob should be a joint effort involving your mouth and your hands. Learn to use both to give your man the ultimate experience and don't be afraid to mix it up and try new techniques.
Bring some treats into the bedroom to add some extra spice to your experience. An erect penis can be a lot of fun when mixed with the right foods. Get out the ice cream and make yourself a banana split. Yummy! Toppings like whipped cream and/or chocolate syrup can make going down a lot more pleasurable for both you and him. If you want to get really kinky, get some Pop Rocks (little exploding candies) and give him a blowjob he'll never forget.
Or simply run an ice cube up and down your guy's shaft in between sucking him off - the mixture of the cold ice cube and the warmth of your mouth will send him over the edge. If he's still unable to climax, just remember that they don't call it a job for nothing, and some bosses are never pleased no matter what you do. As long as you put in the effort, feel free to pat yourself on the back for a job well done.
Keep in touch and let me know if any of this helps. :)
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Well try toungue tricks..
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