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best friends boyfriend
my best friendhas had a boyfriend for 6 months now and in the beginning he was the best one she had found. then he started to become really comfortable with me being around like jess and i could be talking and he would walk up and grab her boob and start making out with her. he used to have so much respect for me being her best friend which i loved but he is a jerk to me and everyone except for her. when we go to the movies which is like every weekend she pays for him because he says he is "poor" and if we go to ice cream or dinner or something like that she pays for him. he came to a movie late last time and i had jess's phone and he texted her if she bought his ticket yet and it gets me mad because he isnt treating anyone like he should. he makes the rudest comments to me and my friends and i cant stand him. not to mention all he wants to do is get down her shirt and pants, but he has minipulated her to the point where he can say anything and do anything and she wont notice.im scared she will do something she will regret or we will lose our close bond like i feel is happening now. i dont want to see her get hurt is he finds smoeone else or something like that. she is just in love with him but no one knows why. jess and i have been fighting so much since i told her i dont like him and all i have to do is say one negative thing and she gives me the dirtiest look so i really cant talk to her about it and if i was to talk to her bf he wouldnt listen at all! and what i hate the most is that if they are together she forgets im there and is so wrapped up with him and its to all her other friends to not just me. she told her best guy friend that she couldnt text anymore and yet last night right in front of him she was texting her boyfriend all night. what should i do i really cant stand him and i really dont want to break our friendship.
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i was in this exact situation, if your friend wont talk you may just have to ride it out until they break up, or can sit her down and just tell her to let you talk for a minute so you can explain why you dont like him. then after they break up she will be able to see why you didnt like him. I know its hard, but you just have to cope with it now.
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this is very complicated
llike you should talk to her
but on the other hand you shouldnt because she might get mad
like i think she likes him too much to like say no to him and stuff
so this is very complicated
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