ok i like this guy alot and he likes me alot but he has a bad reputation with girls (doing stuff with them and then it becomes a locker room joke)
anyways well i started hanging out with him mostly during the summer and now i have a whole bunch of feelings for him and he likes me alot to well the problem is that well i can't trust people and i don't know if i could bring myself to go out with him even though i like him alot and well he asked me out and i said no and he got really sad almost to where he was going to cry i guess and now he is ignoring me not because hes mad just because he knows or thinks that he won't ever get a chance with me i think i am the first girl that this guy may actually really like so how can i bring myself to go out with him or should i just wait to see what happends i don't know i need help with this one
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iwantthetruth answered Saturday June 9 2007, 9:54 pm: if he was sad about you saying no then no, your no just a joke to him. it seems like he really likes you. people can change for the better and it seems that he really cares about you. tell him you made a mistake. tell him you wanna be with him. dont worry until you have a good reason to. and if he does anything to turn you into a joke then forget him. but for now go for it. he sounds like he likes you as much as you do. good luck.
xgracee8P answered Saturday June 9 2007, 8:41 pm: You definitly don't sound like a joke to this guy because he was sad after you said no to him. If he did think you were a joke, he would have shrugged it off and went on to another girl. I think you should give this relationship a try. You like him alot, and he likes you alot. You'll never know what it would have been like if you don't try. [ xgracee8P's advice column | Ask xgracee8P A Question ]
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