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Trying to mend the friendship(again
Thank youi Michele for the help and I undderstand what you mean. I tried to apologize, really. I made her a sign that I put on her house and I think I have texted her about 10 times. I also made her a card that says the reason I like you sooo much is becuase I wanna be like you. You are like an idol. She just texted me back saying just stop and you don't want to be like me. I suck in school. All the things I am good for is a hot bod and a good soccer player. Whenever I bring it up on a text(that's the only way she will talk to me) she just says why are you talking to me? Whenever I see her at school she always gives me the death look . I just had this problem for over 2 months now and I feel that invading her privacy was wrong but I want to be given another chance and she just will not let me do that. You know what I mean? I feel I have nowhere else to turn. Thanks for your previous advice.
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I understand, and I think this will take some time. She needs to get over her anger, and in the meantime she is getting on with her life, and not thinking at all about you. Her comment about "why would you want to be like me, all I am is a hot bod, and a good soccer players, blah, blah, blah," This tells me that she still thinks enough of you to give you some good advice. People who are selfish, want everyone to be like them, to like what they like, and to wear what they wear, etc. etc. Believe me, she is flattered that you think so highly of her. I think she will come around. In the mean time, you can still admire her and try to copy her good points. her skills and mayber her fashions, but at this point, if you try any more to make amends, you are just annoying her. So let it be, and when some time has passed between the events when you annoyed her, and a time in the future, when she has forgotten why she was annoyed by you. You will be friends again. Let me say this, whenever she needs a boost to her ego, when she is feeling bad about something, she may just seek out your company because you will remind her of all the good qualities she has.
Seeing only what is good about a person is an excellent trait that you have. Don't loose it. I will serve you well for the rest of your life.
Michele
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