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i like a guy .... help
so yeah im i like this guy really bad and weve had flings in the past and all he heard i wanted to "hook up " with him which i do but i really like him and thats why i wanna hook up with him .. he would hook up with me too but i feel like all he wants is hooking up and isnt serious i dont really think it but its just the impression hes giving off i really know him and im sure he would settle down eventually .. but my main problem is he just hooekd up with this really really pretty girl who has an amazing body and i feel like thats the end of me because hwen he sees me now im not gonna meen as much as i did to him before.. which was a lot i think.. and now he like talks to this girl... i really dont know what my question is.. all i know if i need someone to talk to and help me somewhat .. thanks in advance
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i know its hard. and you dont want to hear this and im sorry. but even if you like him a TON, never get with a guy that is only interested in the physical stuff. Guys like that are immature and have the potential to cheat, and treat a girl like shit. trust me it happened to me. the good news is that when he setteled down he wanted me sooo bad. but dont worry about the other girl. he seems kinda shallow so im sure he thought you were really hot too.. but never loose your confidence, and feel free to flaunt your stuff and play games with him. it will drive him crazy if he thinks you are not interested in him. and the truth is you wont be after a while. but i really think he's too risky to get involved with. so again im sorry becasue if you like him i know its not what you want to hear, but it's better than him hurting you trust me.
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I think this guy was just interested in a hookup. Now he's into a new girl- and he's moving on from you. You really deservew better; move on from him because you'll be disappointed (to say the least) when you realize he was only into the physical stuff.
This isn't to say you can't still be friends with him, though. But you'll be much better off being with a guy who is actually remotely interested in the ENTIRE concept of a relationship, and not just the physical stuff.
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