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16/f;; so it goes like this. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. this is my longest relationship & my only 'serious' one. all the others were like 3 weeks aha except for one after 7th grade ended which lasted for 4 months but that doesnt count bc that was just stupid. n e way. i love my boyfriend but lately ive been gettin butterflies and stuff around certain other guys, almost like im developing crushes. i know i should have fun & play the field and what not but i love my boyfriend and although i do get irritated with him lately i cant see myself without him and dont want to break up. basically how can i just get over these little crushes on these guys? avoiding them is not an option in some cases, not to mention im a flirt and i dont even realize i do it =/
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just keep reminding your self that you love your boyfriend..think about all the amazing times you had together that makes you smile or laugh. all the things hes done for you. just think of all the good things about him and that should help.
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you know the same thing happend to me a few months ago, i've been with my boyfriend for two and half years...freshman year, to now my senior year.. but its hard to stick with the same person. and i tried to explore the field..him and i both did and guess whatt it lasted a week!
seriously.. i just flat out told him how i was feeling (he is your man so you can talk to him)..i assured him that of course i love him and i dunno why i got those feelings.. but i had them.. he understood and just told me what he thought..
to get over them though.. i seriously look at as.. what could honestly be better.. here i am with a man who truly cares about me, who i've been with for awhile, can talk to about anything, kisses me, hugs me, knows my family.. am i really willing to put all that on the line for a little crush.. i dunno about you but no way. its so hard to find a good guy i hear about it all the time.. i see it through my friends who just arent as lucky as i to have someone as special as i do.. they always say.. if you find something good, hang on to it..
good luck my dear (:
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