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i have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and no that doesn't seem long but we've been best friends and sometimes more for two years so we're pretty close. the entire time we were friends he was really in love with me he would write letters and tell me i was the only one for him. it has been this way all the way up until a month ago. i still think he's in love with me but i really think he takes me for granted. Now he blows me off and says "you won't break up with me c'mon" or lies to me. when he lies i get mad at him and once we broke up and he was a mess, i love him so i took him back and a week later his attitude wa sback.
i don't know if i did something or what because one minute he's head over heals for me in love the next it just seems like he's dating me for show.
my sweet guy turned into a jerk, i don't want to break up i just want things to be back to normal what should i do? if your telling me to talk to him what should i say becaus ei've talked to him time and time again!
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You've talked to him plenty of times, you say. But remember when you were little and your mother would tell you that actions speak louder than words? Well, that saying holds true here; You tell your boyfriend time and time again that his behavior is unacceptable, and yet you permit it. He knows that you'll talk, but you won't act (and if you do, you'll feel bad and take him back).
One day, sit him down while you two are alone. Explain to him exactly how you feel, without yelling or becoming irrational. You don't deserve to be blown off and taken for granted; Tell him that. Say that if he wants a relationship with you, he needs to hold his own. But if he doesn't, you need to act on your promise and dump him. You don't deserve to be treated like that; It only succeeds in making you miserable.
Understand that you loved who he was, and not who he is now. Who he was is gone, and if he still treats you badly (even after you talk to him), he's never coming back. You deserve happiness, and this guy can't give you that.
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