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WHAT DO I DO..
Im Thirteen, and im a female.
Im going into 8th grade, and this
guy i like is going into 9th.
We like each other, but im having troubles
trying to get to where I..trust him
I guess you can say. He's had a past
girlfriend, who im very very good friends
with. And they well.. went out for about
two years and had sex. And Me and Him
just recently broke up from like just a one
month relationship, i broke up with him.
And I here him & my friend he had a past
relationship with had started talking,
and said they still love each other,
but im suppose to not know that, so i cant
confront him or her about it. And he says
I love you. And i say i love you too, or
the other way around. All over text.
We do not whatsoever seem to ever talk on
the phone.
So i guess what im asking is,
how do i control all these feelings of
knowing they have a past relationship,
and knowing they have recently talked about
it. Although he says he loves me.
And hes all i think about..
<3
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Well one thing to consider is that you both are REALLY young. Some things you have to ask yourself is if you are actually in love with him or if you just like him A LOT. There is a difference, but a lot of people don't realize that until they actually do fall in love.
Well, you could always ask your boyfriend about how he feels about his ex. If he tells you he still has feelings for her, then you can go from there. But if he says he doesn't, I wouldn't worry about it. Most couples, if they actually did love each other, go on loving each other when they split up. Maybe they aren't IN love with each other, but they still love each other a lot. That is perfectly okay.
I wouldn't jump to conclusions or worry too much about it. It's probably nothing. Just go with the flow with your relationship with this guy. Hey, it isn't like you're going to marry him, right? You're not even in high school yet. I think a bigger problem is going to be when he's in HS and you're still in middle school. Seeing each other will become more difficult and you may drift apart because you're basically living in two different worlds.
But for now just have fun with him and don't worry about the ex. Good luck.
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