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I dont know what to do,
Im Thirteen, and im a female.
Im going into 8th grade, and this
guy i like is going into 9th.
We like each other, but im having troubles
trying to get to where I..trust him
I guess you can say. He's had a past
girlfriend, who im very very good friends
with. And they well.. went out for about
two years and had sex. And Me and Him
just recently broke up from like just a one
month relationship, i broke up with him.
And I here him & my friend he had a past
relationship with had started talking,
and said they still love each other,
but im suppose to not know that, so i cant
confront him or her about it. And he says
I love you. And i say i love you too, or
the other way around. All over text.
We do not whatsoever seem to ever talk on
the phone.
So i guess what im asking is,
how do i control all these feelings of
knowing they have a past relationship,
and knowing they have recently talked about
it. Although he says he loves me.
And hes all i think about..
But where not even back together..
Should we get back?
And its hard to ignore allllll the feelings
that are going on in my heart, or head.
<3
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Well going from a 2-year-girlfriend to a one-month is a big difference. If I were you I'd be really scared about him and her. I mean two years, wow, and they might still have feelings? Not trying to bust your chops but its possible and a definite scare. I'm not really sure how to try and ignore their relationship but if he says he loves you and you trust him that should be a start. I would talk to him about it so you know if you shuold be worried or not. Ask him if he still likes her or not. I honestly don't think that theres alot to do ignore it. I'd say just ask him and hopefully you'd get the answer you want. If you want to be with him there shouldn't be anything to stop you. Go ahead and get back together if it makes you happy. But I recommend to make sure he really likes you (like he says he does) so you don't get hurt. And make sure that he doesn't still like his pervious girlfriend. When I have a lot of feelings in my head I just lay in bed with music on (music that means alot to me) and try to sort it out. Its hard I know, but I just picture each outcome and think of the results. I see what is best for me and what I want most. Because a lot of the time what I want most wins, but I need to make sure that I can stand the pain that might follow. Hope this helped- I'll be here if you need to talk or anymore advice =)
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