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secrects
if you feel your husband is keep secrects from you and you feel like that is it good to keep it to your self?
sometimes as if he is hiding things from me, things like his phone bill, text messages, and maybe emails too, but i don't have any proof of it and it is bothering me. help me if you can.
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I think you need to sit down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel before things end up in a mess.
He's your husband and he should not be keeping anything from you. Vise Versa.
Maybe do a bit more investigating before you say something just incase you are over reacting. Have you noticed him staying out later and night and after work and things like that?
I'm sorry hun but sometimes Mr perfect isn't so perfect. I know it hurts but you are his wife and you deserve to know what is going on in his life.
But then again.. could he be planning something special for you? Don't jump to conclusions just yet but definitely keep your eye out. Just watch the way he reacts to you.
Stand up for yourself and don't let him or anyone take advantage of you.
Sometimes in the married life people get disconnected to their once upon a loved one. It happens to the best of us.
But as I said, don't jump to conclusions but you really need to talk to him.
I wish you all the best :)
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Are you two newlyweds?
If so, it's possible that he hasn't adjusted, or simply doesn't want, to share everything with you. Respect his privacy and trust him. If things get really suspicious, for example he quickly shuts down whatever he was doing on the computer when you enter the room, then you might want to confront him about why he's being so secretive.
If you two aren't newlyweds, has this behavior just begun? Was he not like this before? If so, he's def. hiding something. Ask him about why he's changed, but don't corner him or make him feel like you're prying. Just mention that his sudden secretive nature worries you and you wanted to make sure nothing was wrong. Something like that.
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